It is OK if you are a rogue.

It is OK if you are a rogue.
It is Ok if you are good.
What is not OK is to keep projecting yourself as an angel and to live as a rogue.

When a rogue is a rogue it makes a lot more people act in responsible ways to protect the world. 
But when a rogue lives in the guise of an angel, it shakes the very roots of trust. 
You no more know whom to believe and whom not to believe.

To claim to be faithful to your spouse and get indulged in extra marital affairs,
To claim to be responsible politician but to be ruthlessly corrupt,
To act as a spiritual guru in front of masses and be indulged in scandals,
Etc...

Either be courageous Duryodhana who had the courage to admit - I know what I am doing is wrong but I cannot retire from it ,
Or be a Valmiki who transformed himself from being a thief,
Or just continue to be the wonderful human being you are .

If you must stab, do it from the front.
Do not call yourself a friend and stab from behind.

Either be aggressively bad or preferably be aggressively good.